My husband and I just got a puppy.
Jokes on us. You know what Im talking about if youve ever had a puppy. A puppy is pretty much a newborn that pees on the floor and eats your shoes and attacks your feet while youre walking across the kitchen. Weve only had him for a couple of days, and Im already realizing everything that has fallen to the wayside while I care for this rascal. The dishes, for one. The pile of laundry. My appearances this morning as I walked outside in Ugg slippers and no makeup. Although we love him, its exhausting. And so very distracting.
But isnt that life? So distracting and so very busy. We have so many things fighting for our attention every daypositive and fulfilling things and some negative things too. And to live a balanced life we need all of it (although, I wish I didnt need the pee on my floor).
But the trick is to recognize when there are certain things getting in the way of your relationship with God simply because you give those things too much attention. Here are nine things you are most likely putting before Him.
Your phone
And if its not your phone, its your laptop or your iPad or tablet. Whether youre on Facebook wasting hours away scrolling through your news feed or taking and posting pictures of every desert you have, those are valuable minutes and hours that could be spent doing something else. Social media is a powerful tool to do good, but how much time are you investing, and what kind of good are you doing while on it?
Your kids
Dont get mad at me! Ill explain. Kids are one of the biggest priorities of our lives and because of them we have so much joy and love in our households. But how many times have you gone through a day with playdough in your hair and spit-up on your shirt, and you realize you havent done a single thing all day other than take care of kids? Start giving yourself at least five minutes each day to sit down to read scriptures or pray or have some alone time to sit and ponder and write in your journal. It might have to be after your spouse gets home or after bedtime, but God needs your time too, and he'll make you an even better parent.
Money
In some ways, it does make the world go round. Without it, life gets pretty hard. But Ive seen people walk away from God once they strike it rich and can afford the hot new car and the penthouse suite. Ive seen the love of money destroy marriages, and Ive seen workaholics devote every second to their growing business until they get addicted to the cash flow and never look back. Dont put the cash ahead of what matters. You cant take it with you.
Church responsibilities
There are lots of jobs and responsibilities within church congregations, and each one matters and keeps the wheels moving. But when those responsibilities cloud the very reason youre there or the very meaning behind why youre doing those tasks, the jobs themselves become a priority rather than Who you're doing them for.
A relationship
This one can be easy to put before God if youre not careful, especially while youre young. You date, fall in love and plan a wedding; and life just rolls busily along. Even well after youre married, you have to choose together to put God first.
Hobbies
Fantasy football, video games, crafts, photography and shall I go on? You have talents and interests, and they deserve plenty of your attention. But theres a balance in all things. How much time are you giving those hobbies? Do you thank God for those talents?
Idle time
We all deserve a little R&R, especially after a long workday or day with the kiddos. But something to remember is we always have time for the things we prioritize. Think of your favorite things. Even in your busy life, you make time for them, right? Devote more of that time to service for others or reading your Bible or sending a prayer of thanks Heavenward.
Education
Im a huge advocate for higher education. But, for a lot of students, hitting the books can mean no time for anything else. The degree, the tests and the jam-packed classes and notebooks filled to overflowing is EVERYTHING that matters. Those things do matter, but nurturing your relationship with God each day matters too.
Your trials
We fight addictions, or we watch a loved one battle a disease, or we work two jobs to keep food on the table, and during the battle we focus so very intently on the fire that we cant see through the flames. Sometimes we get so focused on our problems we forget to take them to the problem solver. God is there. He wants to help. He doesnt want us to forget Him when life gets hard.
We all have things to work on and things we are putting before God every day despite our best efforts. The only thing we can do is recognize when we are placing anything before Him, work on changing and retrain ourselves to see past all the distractions. Just as a good woman I knew as a kid used to say, What are you doing in this moment? This moment is your life, we have to remember it's what we do in day-to-day moments that makes up who we are.
Jokes on us. You know what Im talking about if youve ever had a puppy. A puppy is pretty much a newborn that pees on the floor and eats your shoes and attacks your feet while youre walking across the kitchen. Weve only had him for a couple of days, and Im already realizing everything that has fallen to the wayside while I care for this rascal. The dishes, for one. The pile of laundry. My appearances this morning as I walked outside in Ugg slippers and no makeup. Although we love him, its exhausting. And so very distracting.
But isnt that life? So distracting and so very busy. We have so many things fighting for our attention every daypositive and fulfilling things and some negative things too. And to live a balanced life we need all of it (although, I wish I didnt need the pee on my floor).
But the trick is to recognize when there are certain things getting in the way of your relationship with God simply because you give those things too much attention. Here are nine things you are most likely putting before Him.
Your phone
And if its not your phone, its your laptop or your iPad or tablet. Whether youre on Facebook wasting hours away scrolling through your news feed or taking and posting pictures of every desert you have, those are valuable minutes and hours that could be spent doing something else. Social media is a powerful tool to do good, but how much time are you investing, and what kind of good are you doing while on it?
Your kids
Dont get mad at me! Ill explain. Kids are one of the biggest priorities of our lives and because of them we have so much joy and love in our households. But how many times have you gone through a day with playdough in your hair and spit-up on your shirt, and you realize you havent done a single thing all day other than take care of kids? Start giving yourself at least five minutes each day to sit down to read scriptures or pray or have some alone time to sit and ponder and write in your journal. It might have to be after your spouse gets home or after bedtime, but God needs your time too, and he'll make you an even better parent.
Money
In some ways, it does make the world go round. Without it, life gets pretty hard. But Ive seen people walk away from God once they strike it rich and can afford the hot new car and the penthouse suite. Ive seen the love of money destroy marriages, and Ive seen workaholics devote every second to their growing business until they get addicted to the cash flow and never look back. Dont put the cash ahead of what matters. You cant take it with you.
Church responsibilities
There are lots of jobs and responsibilities within church congregations, and each one matters and keeps the wheels moving. But when those responsibilities cloud the very reason youre there or the very meaning behind why youre doing those tasks, the jobs themselves become a priority rather than Who you're doing them for.
A relationship
This one can be easy to put before God if youre not careful, especially while youre young. You date, fall in love and plan a wedding; and life just rolls busily along. Even well after youre married, you have to choose together to put God first.
Hobbies
Fantasy football, video games, crafts, photography and shall I go on? You have talents and interests, and they deserve plenty of your attention. But theres a balance in all things. How much time are you giving those hobbies? Do you thank God for those talents?
Idle time
We all deserve a little R&R, especially after a long workday or day with the kiddos. But something to remember is we always have time for the things we prioritize. Think of your favorite things. Even in your busy life, you make time for them, right? Devote more of that time to service for others or reading your Bible or sending a prayer of thanks Heavenward.
Education
Im a huge advocate for higher education. But, for a lot of students, hitting the books can mean no time for anything else. The degree, the tests and the jam-packed classes and notebooks filled to overflowing is EVERYTHING that matters. Those things do matter, but nurturing your relationship with God each day matters too.
Your trials
We fight addictions, or we watch a loved one battle a disease, or we work two jobs to keep food on the table, and during the battle we focus so very intently on the fire that we cant see through the flames. Sometimes we get so focused on our problems we forget to take them to the problem solver. God is there. He wants to help. He doesnt want us to forget Him when life gets hard.
We all have things to work on and things we are putting before God every day despite our best efforts. The only thing we can do is recognize when we are placing anything before Him, work on changing and retrain ourselves to see past all the distractions. Just as a good woman I knew as a kid used to say, What are you doing in this moment? This moment is your life, we have to remember it's what we do in day-to-day moments that makes up who we are.