By allowing ads to appear on this site, you support the local businesses who, in turn, support great journalism.
Fatherhood programs teach participants 'softer stuff' to build stability in homes
090414faa86304f54a4bfd48d022a16277c3677cdb85670ef5e4c7691fa41d89
Government initiatives often cause controversy, but one aimed at providing fathers with the tools they need to be successful isn't as well known. Who do fatherhood programs help, and are there success stories? - photo by Payton Davis
When Cheyenne, Wyoming, resident Michael Pea signed up for free welding lessons through a federally funded training program for low-income fathers, it surprised him that the first week of class seemed like a college psychology lecture, according to Marketplace.

Course instructor Chuck Skinner "trained on a big paper chart," the Marketplace article indicated. Scribbled on the chart were horizontal lines. The words "gratitude," create" and "chose" took up the paper's top half, while red letters toward the bottom spelled "anger," "fear" and "pain."

We can call them life shocks, Skinner said before transitioning into an overview of psychoanalysis, according to Marketplace. They are just going to happen.

Miles Bryan of Marketplace reported Pea bounced from job to job causing trouble and faced even more hurdles after getting custody of his 5-year-old nephew. Pea signed up for the fatherhood program, Dads Making a Difference, with hopes of job training, but the most important things he received were lessons on how to handle emotions and deal with crying children.

And Bryan noted that's a common story for participants of government-funded fatherhood initiatives: They arrive seeking solutions to issues like financial binds but leave the courses knowing "the softer stuff" that proves just as vital to long-term stability in the home.

Through Dads Making a Difference, Pea turned his life around, graduating from the course and landing a welding job to support his nephew.

I wont be upset or upset with myself because I can now provide for him, Pea said.

According to Marketplace, he wasn't the only one.

"Nine out of 10 in the Cheyenne program found jobs after graduating in the last few years, and most saw their wages go up by more than 50 percent," Bryan wrote.

According to MassLive, President Barack Obama put more than $500 million toward fatherhood classes in the U.S.

The 16-session courses walk participants through a wide range of topics including the five developmental stages of childhood and treating mothers with respect, Eli Saslow wrote for The Washington Post.

So, who utilizes these programs, and do success stories nationwide make them worth the price tag?

Research gathered by Family Studies indicated policymakers targeted "diverse, lower-income families."

According to Family Studies, fatherhood grantees included 341,000 participants in the first five years, each grantee assisting about 700 participants a year. Of those served, 40 percent were black, 30 percent white and 20 percent Hispanic/Latino.

Among Family Studies' interesting findings was this: Females constituted 16 percent of the participants.

"Twenty-two programs provided curriculum that combined fathering education with healthy relationship education, and four other programs focused solely on couple relationship education," according to Family Studies. "Also, a few organizations served women in unique situations, such as when the childs father was incarcerated or when women wanted to improve their relationship or work more effectively with the childs absent father."

The Family Studies piece stated evaluation of the programs effectiveness is limited with a number of rigorous studies in the works.

However, some reports included testimonials, participants describing life-changing skills developed through the curriculum, Family Studies reported.

If asked what the (fatherhood) program meant to me, I would say it helped me realize how much I really hurt and embarrassed my children by being a criminal and coming to prison, one man said of the initiative, according to Family Studies.

Ron Chimelis of MassLive wrote its unlikely the program will achieve a 100 percent success rating or anything close, for that matter.

Still, the ways these initiatives potentially benefit U.S. families make their cause something to support, Chimelis reported.

It may be having some positive impact, he wrote. I hope so. We should all hope so.

Latest causes stories:

#BlackLivesMatter's new campaign to end racist policing practices misses poverty factor, writer says

Today's grandparents are smarter than in years past, but poverty puts their health at risk

Poet spends $500K grant on vacation for others
Sign up for our e-newsletters
Book review: Author digs into mining's complicated past and present in 'River of Lost Souls'
95ea3fecbc0a64e4f05e88f3376fb1889a1fe7caae34e3144ec2b2c8665a17dd
Jonathan Thompson will speak about his book "River of Lost Souls" at the King's English Bookshop on Tuesday, April 3 at 7 p.m. - photo by Amanda Olson
"RIVER OF LOST SOULS: The Science, Politics, and Greed Behind the Gold King Mine Spill," by Jonathan Thompson, Torrey House Press, 275 pages (nf)

Plenty has been written about the very small world of a mining town and the very broad reach of a beleaguered industry. From Loretta Lynns iconic song "Coal Miners Daughter," to the 2010 nail-biting coverage of 33 trapped Chilean miners, to the hit Broadway musicals "Paint Your Wagon" and "Billy Elliot," mining is a global story, and its one of heartbreak, hard work and hard times.

Jonathan Thompsons "River of Lost Souls" examines the many facets of risk involved in taking resources from below the earths surface. An environmental journalist, Thompson has reported on southwest Colorado for over 20 years. This book is special, however, because the Four Corners area of Colorado is his current and ancestral home. Thompson is writing about minings ecological, social, financial and political impact on his land, his landscape, his water, his people. That makes "River of Lost Souls" more than a regular reporting job.

Thompson begins with the Gold King Mine wastewater disaster of 2015, which the EPA caused while attempting to drain water near the mines entrance. The spill sent 3 million gallons of waste and tailings into Cement Creek, a tributary of the Animas River and part of the San Juan River watershed which drains into the Colorado, affecting the Utah, Colorado and New Mexico parts of that watershed as well as the Navajo Nation.

From there, Thompson jumps into far stretches of time to 1765, when a Spanish explorer named the Animas River; to 10,000 years earlier, when Paleo-Indians roamed the rivers valley; to the meridian of time, when the ancestors of the Zuni, Hopi and Rio Grande Pueblo people inhabited the land for 500 years; to the mid-1800s and the Swedes who came to Silverton, Colorado, to mine.

Its a grand scope, but telling any story of landscape is telling a very grand story.

It also makes a complex story difficult to follow. Thompsons time warps are important, but they are jarring. His time jumps need clear dates, and Thompson doesnt always make them available. A map would also be useful. Thompsons writing is good, but his sentences can be dense and require readers to do their own mining for the riches the writing embeds. The work is worthwhile, however, as there are many moving parts in any story about mines land, culture, policy, history, money, inevitable disaster and Thompson works to examine all of them.

"River of Lost Souls" is a thoughtful read, but not a quick one. Because Thompsons writings come from 20 years of his newspaper reports, the overall feeling can be disjointed and sparse, which is distracting if one is expecting to follow a tenable thread. This is not a typical narrative with a cast of characters and a traditional story arc. Readers should approach this text as the investigation it is: puzzle pieces of a larger-than-life story that is eons old. If you are the kind of reader who wants it laid out cleanly, this is not that book. But, to Thompsons point, nothing is clean about mining that has never been the case.

Thompsons best writing is in his descriptions of people and places. His telling of how he came to Silverton is familiar and engaging. If readers approach the book with care and attention, they will be rewarded with savoring these descriptive passages when they happen.
Latest Obituaries